Luke 17:3 Ministries FAQ~ Answers to the questions we get the most about Abusers/Narcissists/and Psychopathic Relatives:

1. Yes, they know what they’re doing.

2. Yes, they know they’re hurting you.

3. Yes, they’re doing it on purpose.

4. Yes, they can control it. They do whenever they want to impress someone.

5. Yes, they could stop if they wanted to.

6. No, they don’t love you, even if they say they do (Actions speak louder than words). They do not feel love, empathy, compassion or remorse. Your relationship is not about love. It’s about control, dominance, power, attention, “respect”, admiration, subservience.

7. No, you cannot change them. You can only change yourself.

8. Yes, there is something you can do. GET OUT. I know that’s not what you want to hear, but that’s the answer. If it takes you years to accept this, you will always regret those lost years that you could have spent living a joyful life.

“Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, and will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty”…2 Corinthians 6:17-18.