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For Answers to Tough Questions ( Unconditional Forgiveness, Forgiveness Without Repentance, Dealing With Rejection, When Your Attempts at Reconciliation Are Rebuffed, etc.):
Radio Bible Class Ministries (est. 1938) has articles and books written by many pastors and ministers.
Click HERE FOR ONE ARTICLE and HERE FOR ANOTHER ARTICLE.
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Don’t miss this great interview on forgiveness with David Augsburger, Professor of Pastoral Care at Fuller Theological Seminary. CLICK HERE TO READ OR LISTEN.
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What about ‘Honoring’ abusive parents? See Christianity Today’s article:
http://www.christianitytoday.com/tcw/2006/mayjun/4.38.html
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For a great article on how your abuser will lie about you to others and try to turn them against you read ‘The Smear Campaign’:
http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/thesmearcampaignoftheabuser.msnw
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Why are you sticking around, or coming back for more??? Great article and checklist on Traumatic Bonding with Abusers and Psychopaths:
http://www.womansavers.com/relationship-articles.asp?a=127
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Unsure of exactly what you’re dealing with? Check out the Characteristics Of Narcissistic Mothers. Click HERE.
For a list of unusual Strange Psycho Behaviors, Click HERE.
For a list of Abuse You May Not Realize is really abuse, Click HERE.
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For a healthy dose of common sense, don’t miss Anna Valerious’ well-written, fascinating, and educational blog Narcissists Suck CLICK HERE.
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Jam-packed with educational material and helpful, healing suggestions, make sure to check out this wonderful resource whose motto is “The Pain Stops Here.” (PLEASE NOTE: This is a secular forum, not a Christian forum)- Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers.com. CLICK HERE.
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A favorite excuse for abuse- “I’m Not Perfect”- or should it really be “I’m Just Plain Evil”? Check out Soaring Dove’s great analysis on her blog, CLICK HERE.
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Are you dealing with a Narcissist? For the most extensive study on narcissistic abusers and how to deal with them, check out Dr. Sam Vaknin’s website.
******* WHY do Narcissists just love to ruin our holidays (and other good times)????
Click on: http://samvak.tripod.com/journal40.html *******
DOWNLOAD THESE E-BOOKS BY DR. SAM VAKNIN AT NO CHARGE:
Narcissism Book of Quotes
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/NPDQuotes.rtf
Malignant Self Love – Narcissism Revisited EXCERPTS
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/MSL2excerpts.rtf
The Developmental Psychology of Psychopathology
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/development.rtf
The Conundrums of Psychology
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/psychology.rtf
Here are more very helpful sites from Dr. Sam Vaknin:
ABUSE in RELATIONSHIPS RESOURCES
ARTICLES
What is Abuse? The various faces of abusive behavior and coping methods.
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse.html
‘Traumatic Bonding’ and the Psychology of Torture
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/torturepsychology.htmlThe cultural and social dimensions of traumas – Traumas as Social Interactions:
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/trauma.htmlThe narcissist and his family – The malignant narcissist abuses his family
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/faq22.htmlThe narcissist in the workplace – abuse and bullying in corporate settings
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/faq81.htmlWEB SITES and COMMUNITIES
Domestic Violence FAQs
http://www.suite101.com/topic_page.cfm/6514/2051FAQs regarding abusive relationships and the psychodynamics of abusers.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
http://www.suite101.com/welcome.cfm/npdDiscussions, journal entries and links regarding the Narcissistic Personality Disorder and relationships with abusive narcissists.
Emotional and Verbal Abuse
http://www.suite101.com/welcome.cfm/verbal_emotional_abuseDiscussions, journal entries and links regarding verbal and emotional abuse in relationships.
Spousal Abuse and Domestic Violence
http://www.suite101.com/welcome.cfm/spousal_domestic_abuseDiscussions, journal entries and links regarding domestic violence and spousal abuse.
Open Site Family Violence
http://open-site.org/Society/Issues/Violence_and_Abuse/Family_Violence/Abusive Relationships FAQs
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/indexqa.htmlFAQs, articles, chat transcripts and resources regarding relationships with abusers
Corporate Narcissism
CHAT TRANSCRIPTS and INTERVIEWS
http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Personality_Disorders/Site/Transcripts/narcissism.htm http://healthyplace.com/communities/personality_disorders/site/Transcripts/abusive_narcissists.htm{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{
Are you dealing with a relative who has no conscience? Check out lovefraud.com for help in identifying, dealing with, and leaving sociopaths, including personality traits of sociopaths, manipulation techniques they use, the ‘pity play’, how to spot a con artist, and recommended books. The site is geared toward spouses and domestic partners, but the info it gives is relevant to all relationships with any family member or friend.
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Great links for learning about and dealing with abusive relationships with the Borderline Personality Disordered, Narcissists and Psychopaths:
Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families: www.adultchildrenofdysfunctionalfamilies.com
The Psychopath Free Forums: http://thepsychopath.freeforums.org
Psychopath Group: http://groups.msn.com/PSYCHOPATH
The Nook For Victims of Those With BPD: www.thenook4pds.com
Narcissistic Personality Disorder Group: http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER
For Adult Children of Narcissists and Psychopaths: http://groups.msn.com/ADULTCHILDRENOFNARCISSISTSPSYCHOPATHS
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board: http://www.voicelessness.com
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BY POPULAR DEMAND 🙂 For information on Deliverance and Spiritual Warfare: (be sure to check the books available on most of these sites as well):
FREE download of Gene & Earline Moody’s The Deliverance Manual- http://www.lakehamiltonbiblecamp.com/man/d-index.htm
Demonbusters website: http://demonbuster.com
Francis Frangipane: http://www.frangipane.org
Elijah House- John & Paula Sandford: http://www.elijahhouse.org
Streams Ministries- John Paul Jackson: http://www.streamsministries.com
Jonas Clark Ministries: http://jonasclark.com
Global Harvest Ministries- Doris Wagner: http://globalharvestministries.org/index,asp?action=power
Spoken Word Deliverance Ministry
Deliverance From Demons- Rev. Bill McGinnis
Christian Warfare- with Intercessor Team
Recommended books:
The Handbook For Spiritual Warfare, Dr. Ed Murphy
Strongman’s His Name…What’s His Game, Drs. Jerry & Carol Robeson
Strongman’s His Name, II, Drs. Jerry & Carol Robeson
Spiritual Warfare, Richard Ing
Demons, The Answer Book, Lester Sumrall
How To Cast Out Demons, Doris M. Wagner
The Three Battlegrounds, Francis Frangipane (and other books by Francis Frangipane)
Exposing Spiritual Witchcraft, Jonas Clark
Come Out! Handbook For The Serious Deliverance Minister, Jonas Clark
Needless Casualties Of War, John Paul Jackson
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To study the Jezebel and Ahab Spirits:
Jonas Clark, Spirit of Life Ministries (Jezebel, Seducing Goddess of War!) http://www.jonasclark.com/jezebelbookreview.htm
Unmasking the Jezebel Spirit, by John Paul Jackson
The Latter Rain Page http://www.latter-rain.com/eschae/jezebel.htm
Sure Word Ministries http://sureword.faithweb.com/discerningjez.html
Confronting Jezebel: Discerning and Defeating The Spirit Of Control, by Steve Sampson
Jezebel or Ahab Spirit- Article by Pam Clark- http://www.prophetic.net/ahab.htm
End-Time Deliverance Ministry- http://www.demonbuster.com/zcurseofaaj.html
For A List Of Characteristics Of The Jezebel Spirit: http://www.church-systems.com/JezebelCharacteristics.htm
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Christian Resources:
AmazingBible.org- A mega site of Bible, Christian, and religious information, studies and commentaries http://www.AmazingBible.org
ChristSites- A Christian search engine listing many great websites http://christsites.com
Praize- an online Christian Community including search engine, chat, news, shopping, etc. http://www.praize.com
Fish the Net- an excellent index of Evangelistic sites and source of information. http://www.fishthe.net
Uplifting Down-Home Gospel Music:
Try the Gaither Homecoming Series videos, CDs, and tapes. http://www.gaither.com
Inspiration- Do Not Miss This Site- It is such a Blessing:
http://wandascountryhome.com/spirit-index.html
Cancer Foundation For The Hopeless and Cornerstone of Hope Ministries, Pastor Annmarie Fontanez, Overseer:
http:// www.cornerstone-of-hope.com.
To Order Books:
Christian Book Distributors: http://www.christianbook.com
Amazon- http://www.amazon.com